Saturday, September 22, 2012

Positive???? You Betcha

Someone left a comment asking about positive things. Thank you for the comment as it got me thinking about my life. When a spouse dies you feel like a part of you is missing,that all your hopes and dreams died with them. Thinking about it I have a greater appreciation for my life. I was blessed with 23 years with Bryon,that is more than some people get. I know true love, how angry words can not be taken back. I have learned how not to take myself so seriously. The incident with the paint and dogs I actually laughed about. When Bryon died I thought my life was over.....not true. I am just beginnng another phase of this incredible journey. Life can be good of course it is tempered with the "bad" days. The positive is once again discovering who Wendy is. I have a wonderful family who support me when I am willing to accept it. (I have a hard time with that) I am content finally with quiet time,sitting enjoying the last vestiges of the day. Yes, sadness is still in my life, but each new day is a positive one. I am strong, and learning how to continue my life. I can laugh and mean it, smile and it is real. This October it will be 2 years since my soul mate died. Am I sad you bet, will it dictate my life? No way. Besides I have a 1 year old great grandson and I will dance at his wedding.
Once again, thank you for the thought provoking comment.
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